Mistress and David had their first lover's tiff on Saturday - over the 3some with Amanda that he wanted and She didn't want! I find that quite funny - until now their relationship has been artificially perfect - they get dressed up, meet, party, drink fuck and sleep - so for once a little touch of reality crept in...
It'll be interesting to see how it develops moving forward.
He told he her loves her again. But as I said to her - of course he does - their life together is artifially unreal - just good times. Let's see how he copes with his love now...
Because Mistress came home without having had the usual 3 hour of sex with him She was quite horny and I got to cum 3 times yesterday. Means I can't even get it up today - though of course I want to!
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Let the good times roll. Relationships benefit from a roiling of the waters sometimes. Have you considered upping the ante and taking a more dominant role in your relationship? Anyway, congratulations on your good fortune.
Hi Redtail. Thanks for getting in touch.
I find your question deep - a more 'dominant' role - that could mean many things.
I occasionally think about what might be life if I were the dominant partner – but I literally feel too embarrassed to even suggest it – I feel so submissive towards Her, I would not suggest this.
However, we have been fucking like rabbits since She met David – we did again last night and this time I rose above her and offered my cock to Her mouth, and She took it and sucked and wanked me. I have not done anything is dominant as that for years. Literally.
What brought on your question – I am intrigued at the timing.
I posed my question because it seemed that you and Mistress were relating at a different level, one that focused more on your pleasure. While David is not available, she seems quite happy loving you. If you dropped some of your submissive tendencies, you might find that you and Mistress could have love again on a more equal basis. I am not sure that she would be put off by that. 'while some women have dominant tendencies, they also have a side that wants to submit. Clearly she enjoys David's dominance in their relationship. Maybe you would like to play that role sometimes.
Now that David and she are making up, it may be more difficult to adopt that role however. Maybe this would be a good time to have a long discussion about each of your desires.
Further followup: I have no real understanding of your submissive lifestyle. My wife and I are fairly equal in our relationship, in fact I am probably overall more dominant. However, as part of our sexual life, I am sometimes quite submissive, and ask her to spank me, occasionally quite hard. And sometimes she becomes quite aroused when punishing me. In the end, it is all about good sex for both of us. However, my wife would not to dominate me all the time. It would be too hard for her and not be as fulfilling for both of us.
Redtail, you are one observant guy! I am amazed at how well you've read between the lines.
Mistress & I have done a lot of talking and soul searching. She told me She wants me to be more confident and outgoign towards Her sexually - exactly as you have described.
So I have shed (well, not quite shed - its not in the past tense - I am still working on it - but it is working) I have shed many of my inhibitions, and now approach Her more openly sexually - not dominant, but far more up front than I have done over past years - and She loves it.
We have fucked every day this week appart from once when we were both too tired.
It's great. We love it.
She's still the dominant partner, and I still try to put Her first, but I put me into the picture too...
Thanks for the chat - I'm amazed at what you saw in us.
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