Not a squeek!

Things have been quiet.

As Dave left the office for his week away with his wife, he sent Mistress a BBM to say he was leaving his Crackberry in the office – and She’s not heard from him all week. She’s obviously disappointed, though She pretends not to be, so I downplay it.

She toyed with the idea of texting him on his home phone number, but I discouraged this – if he wanted to use that to communicate with Her then he would have done so. She reluctantly accepted this.

Landed back in the UK

He landed back in the UK on Saturday, and She started to eagerly await his communication.

As we fucked on Saturday night She started to talk about him, and asked how I would cope once he was back and the two of them started communicating again.

I replied as I thrust into Her that I would be fine with that – that She needed a real man to fuck Her properly, to treat Her as his slut, to cum on Her face, in Her mouth and in Her arse, and do all the other sexually dominant things that the submissive me was not able to. She groaned with delight and came hard as I shared that with Her.

But come Sunday he still didn’t text.

She’s learned his diary!

She told me She’s not going to see much of him this week – while he’s been away She’s checked his office diary and knows every detail of his planned movements for the week!

Monday (today) She is not in the office.
Tuesday he works from a remote office in which he has a 3pm meeting, so he’s not going to be back before She leaves the office.
Wednesday they are in the office together.
Thursday She has the day off.
Friday they are due to have an office ‘family’ social. He has said he’s not going for that – but he thinks I am going. But I’m not going – I’m too busy, so I won’t be surprised if he changes his plans and goes for that – we shall see.

Fascinating that She knows every detail of his diary.

Facebook

While he’s been away She’s been nosing round facebook – She’s found all his family accounts and taken a look at them….

Contact

We talked about it and agreed that because he’d been quiet all week, he might now find it hard to make first contact.

She said She was going to play hard to get, and would wait for him to make first contact.

I asked if this is really what She wants – to take the risk that he might find it hard to make first contact, or to facilitate that and encourage him to do so? Did She or did She not want to build a relationship with him where next year when he went on holidays they talked about it before he left, and he did stay in touch, or agreed he would not – didn’t just leave without making it clear?

She said She wanted that closer kind of relationship with him, and so we carefully drafted a welcome home message that She sent to his Blackberry.

She said something like:-

Hey you! I hope you are safely back! (smiley face) I have so missed you. You are a * for not contacting me all week. I am so looking forward to seeing you! Xxx

By 9:30 am this morning he’d still not read the message (That’s the beauty of BBM – you can see when the other side has read it) so we don’t know what the impact of the message was going to be.

But Mistress told me that She wants to be able to discuss the week’s silence with him, and agree that they are closer than that, and entitled to clear communication channels – She wants to draw him in.

Getting inside his head

Apparently on their recent away day he asked Her what She was thinking – tried to get inside Her head. He asked Her if She thought it was wrong that he wanted Her to himself.
She blanked him, not wanting to get that close.

She immediately regretted it and decided She did want to get that close – She said that in a year’s time She wants them to be close partners, able to talk about everything without hesitation… So this recent message is supposed to facilitate that sort of discussion and resultant proximity.

We shall see.