Monday, January 18, 2010

Who are you?

About 700 people visited this blog over the weekend. If you click on the map at the bottom of the page, and then scroll down to the bottom of that page, you can see where in the world the last 100 or so visitors came from.

I find it fascinating. Most of you come from the USA. But there's plenty more from all over the world. There are some closer to me, in the UK.

Who are you all? Men? Women? Why are you here? Do you live FemDom lives? Do you know what Femdom is? Do you visit me regularly? Or is this a one off?

Please feel free top leave a comment so we can understand a bit more about who we all are that pass through this place - and please fill in today's survey.

See you again soon!

8 comments:

Redtail said...

I read you blog because I am interested in how you are leading your life sexually. You are very revealing about your thoughts and reaction to both your Mistresses and your ideas as your Femdom relationship develops. While it is interesting and sometimes erotically charged to read about your experiences, I am not interested in leading a Femdom life at all, although sometimes fantasies regarding it are attractive.

I allow my wife to spank me sometimes, but it is almost always an erotic experience which we usually both enjoy, although neither of us really understands it. Spankings usually occur every 3 or 4 weeks, although sometimes they go on for several days once we get started. Each to their own. Thanks for sharing your blog with us.
John

sub hubby said...

Thanks for that Redtail. Nice to know you better.

Shame so many more won't raise their heads above the parapet.

For those that have answered the poll, thanks.

I guess 100 people a day stumble on the site by mistake (every day!) and don't want to comment...

Lady Julia said...

I read your posts via RSS so I probably didn't show up in the stats you mention. I do read pretty much every one of your posts.

Why do I visit here? I enjoy learning about various people's perspectives on relationships. You seem honest and open, something I really like about a person.

Who am I? I'm a dominant Lady with a different style than some, but it's a way of interacting with people that I enjoy a great deal :)

sub hubby said...

Why thank you, Lady Julia. For stopping by, and letting me (us!) know who you are. Much appreciated.

ritemate said...

This is me:
A 55-ish, submissive Scandinavian with a chastity fetish and a deplorable inclination to offer advice. My wife is also a very reluctant Domme, but She’s indicated no interest in cuckolding me. If She does find a lover, however, I’d regard it as an act of dominance. A FLR isn’t fair, and to me that’s the beauty of the arrangement. When She can do things I mustn’t, it feeds my submissive monster. When we’re at a party, She can drink all She wants while I have to stay sober for the drive home. After our meals, She can watch TV while I do the dishes. I know this in no way the dominance you (and sometimes I, too) dream about, but I find comfort in the little things that show Her superior position, hoping our dynamics will eventually progress into something deeper. Right now, punishments are more for my sake than for Hers, but She does seem a little more comfortable with sending me to corner time nowadays. Maybe I’m delusional, but a guy can dream, can’t he?

sub hubby said...

ritemate thanks so much for stoppign by again - and for adding the personal touch - its really appreciated.

I can't walk down the street, or into my friends house, and talk about my FLR, so I really appreciate being able to engage with real people about it here.

As always your comments carry a nugget - "A FLR isn't fair". What a gem. So true. But so easy to forget - I often look for 'fairness': "Why won't She suck my cock when She suck's David's?" - its not fair! No. It's not. And the sooner I fully accept than my FLR is not fair the happier I will be.

Pop back any time, mate.

m said...

I am an avid UK reader of your blog.I enjoy many aspects of real life femdom,orgasm control and discipline,albeit on a part time rather than 24/7 basis,which would be too draining and intense for us.I love to read about those, who have such relationships as an inspiration for ideas for our enjoyment.
I like your blog for the humiliation,cuckolding and discipline aspects and to read about your wife's activities.I enjoy to read about the cuckolding in particular, but often cringe at the effect it has upon you and your self degradation.It must be so painful but it clearly feeds that deep submissive bug that you have.Whether I could ever reach such an edgy, scary situation,I doubt, but I like your slant on it very much.

sub hubby said...

Hi m. Nice to meet you. Thanks for stoping by and commenting.

'Submissive bug'. 'Scary'. I so agree with you. They terrify me - why don't I stop?

I've been reading and loving and hating the stories by xleglover on literotica.com (one of them is linked from my blog).

In them the submissive men are adicted to the cuckold self degradation (as you put it - and I must admit, it is!).

Scary. Painful. Mad. Why do I do it? But I want more - at the same time. I can't wait for Her to come back from a 3 hour session with David, and lick Her arse for the next week and feel how much looser it is and know that his cock made it so.

Insane!