On Friday Dave got a text from a former colleague of his.“Are you shagging [Mistress]?”
Apparently someone in their office has told Her that he thinks the two of them are having a thing.
He was shocked. Got straight on to Mistress to ask Her if She’d told anyone about them. What a daft question!
I had always told Her that people in the office would work it out. She always said they never would. Well, here we are, now they know.
That’s a big group of people now aware of Her infidelity and my cuckold status. I tried to talk to Her about how She feels about that, but She's in denial - She thinks that because they don't have 'proof' they don't 'know' if She's shagging him and so their belief is not 'true'. How naive! But She's happy...
5 comments:
dear sub hubby,how do you feel about others knowing your status? Is it in some kinky way very arousing that other people see you as a cuckold? What if Mistress decides to be out about this fact at work? If She now openly interacts with him?
jude
Sub Hubby,
I am sorry if my posts sound a bit negative towards your lifestyle. I can see the appeal in many ways from a submissive view.
Regrettably,the reality is far from easy.
Here again,I can only see problems for Mistress, as in my viewing experience,having a workplace affair, can isolate you from other colleagues.They will tend to shy away from you,talk behind your back and some may feel resentment.The office dynamics are sure to be affected.So I don't know how vital her job is to you both, and while not illegal,it can lead to performance issues etc.
Sorry mate.
Hi jj.
I am ambivalent.
Mistress told Her girlfriend Amanda about it some time ago – the history of that is available in this blog. That turned me on, and still does turn me on - to know that Her girlfriends know I am a cuckold.
Then a couple of months ago while talking to some good friends of ours Mistress mumbled some complete nonsense about where She had been when She was in London for the day with Dave. The husband immediately pounced it and said that was obviously not true, and that he would be in all sorts of trouble if he came home with a story as weak as that….Mistress laughed and I wanted a hole to open up in the ground and swallow me.
But when we discussed it afterwards Mistress said it turned Her on to know that our neighbour thought She cuckolds me – so I was happy with that.
But now Her whole office – or many of them - will know. This includes many close family friends, and from them word will spread to other friends as well. How do I feel about that?
Initially I was shocked at the thought. But now I am less so – If She wants me to be known as a cuckold, and Herself as a cuckoldress, then that’s fine by me.
She is so stunning that all men so inclined who meet Her want to fuck Her. I don’t mind those who know us knowing that She chooses to fuck other guys – She deserves it, and I am lucky to be with Her.
In fact, if She chooses to let others know, or to be careless of that knowledge, then that too is Her exercising Her power over our relationship, and that turns me on too.
m, I agree with you whole heartedly! This was the very advice I gave Her... She risks ostracising Herslef. I agree with you all the way. I shall caution Her again, and mention your advice!
m, I discussed this with Mistress at some length, and She takes this view: There are always romours about so-and-so fuckign so-and-so. Never confirmed, always denied, and of no real consequence. This will jsut be one of those rumours. If anyone believes it, then She does not care. If they choose to judge Her then She does not care, so She is not worried or troubled by this. And I believe Her - She has never cared much about the opinions of others. That's why She wears the highest heels and the shortest skirts, and I love Her for it!
Thanks for the tip, though, but we're good!
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