Thursday, November 18, 2010

Coffee vs Sex

Its past 3 o’clock. They should be at their coffee date, but She’s not called me or texted to say She’s on Her way, as She usually does.

Has She been anticpating it for the past 30 minutes? Will they snog? Are they even going?

Why is a coffee date as tense for me as a forest fling?

2 comments:

ritemate said...

Hubby,
To most submissive men, the thought of being cuckolded is both arousing and threatening.
My guess is, your cuckolding fantasy involves our Mistress Wife having lots of hot-and wild, no-strings-attached sex with other men. Her adventures in the forest are consistent with your fantasy, thus they’re more arousing than threatening. Non sexual intimacy with Her lover, on the other hand, is inconsistent with your fantasy; therefore Her coffee date is more threatening and less arousing. You should however consider that it was you who gave Her the cards and asked Her to play them; now it’s Her prerogative to decide how it’s done.

sub hubby said...

Hi ritemate.

You are right. In my original fantasy Her cuckold dates were all about sex, and nothing to do with intimacy.

But as She has said to me many times since, Dave is now Her boyfriend, so of course there is intimacy, and intimacy that will develop and grow.

She is quite clear on that - this is where we are, and I should get used to it - which I try every day to do.

She is very kind in helping me to deal with it, but not prepared to compromise and ruthless about pursueing it.

What a world I live in!